I love the movie 13 Going on 30. It is absolutely one of my all-time favorite rom-coms, and I definitely think everyone should watch it at least once. There are so many iconic moments in that movie, and I will truly never forget Jennifer Garner performing Michael Jackson’s “Thriller” in the rainbow-striped dress.
Truly, it was a formative moment in my childhood. In all honestly, I probably watch this movie every few months. It has become a comfort for me, you know? Anyways, we are not here to talk about my comfort movie rewatches. However, 13 Going on 30 is integral to the party theme today.
I have a dream to have a 30th birthday party that is 13 Going on 30 themed. I have always said I wanted to do this, and now, though I am not 30 yet, will be manifesting it until this happens.
So, how exactly does one throw a birthday bash centered around this fan-favorite rom-com.
Here’s the deal. I think there are a few ways you can go about this. I think one could either recreate the Poise magazine party where Jennifer Garner performs Thriller. The birthday girlie could dress up just like she did on her first night out on the town as a 30-year-old.
This would definitely need to be in a specific venue. If you’re around the Fort Smith area, totally look into the Bakery District to see what rooms are available for rental. Even if you are located somewhere else, there are surely different restaurants, venues, and so forth that have private rooms for hire.
Next, get a DJ. Now, this may seem costly, but with today’s technology, anyone can throw together a good playlist. I think some 80s-00s throwbacks would do the trick, and it would be pleasing to the public. Especially with Spotify or Apple Music’s endless music libraries, you can make one heck of a playlist.
For decorations, I think simple but editorial is the way to go. Think about what Poise was going for at their party! Try and emulate that. Definitely need some projector lights, maybe a disco ball, and you know, the works.
For drinks and food, keep it pretty lowkey. I think some nice charcuterie or grazing boards are a crowd-pleaser. You could either have a drink station set up with cocktails guests can mix or make it BYOB. That would definitely help with costs.
Now, be sure to check with your venue that they do not already offer some sort of catering package that comes with the rental space. For example, I know the Bakery District has a room with a bar that comes with a bartender for the night.
For a dress code, maybe suggest everyone comes dressed in their best 2000s fashion. Try to emulate the fun and flirty vibe Jennifer Garner had going for her. Let’s not Mark Ruffalo either!
This is a good way to really amplify the party theme’s cohesion.
Invitations will be where you can really get serious with the theme, so check out Etsy and Pinterest for inspiration and purchasing options.
That’s all there is to it.
Someone cue “Love is a Battlefield.” I am ready for this 13 Going on 30 birthday bash!
